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AS IT IS

  • Writer: Alper Apaydın
    Alper Apaydın
  • Mar 2
  • 2 min read

One day, something happened, and you thought you had hurt someone. You got scared, held yourself responsible for everything that unfolded. You made the wrong decision and believed it was all your fault.


But pause for a moment. What if it wasn’t?


What if only what was meant to happen, happened? What if you simply gave it this meaning?


One day, a similar story will unfold again, and you’ll be a part of it. Not because you’re cursed—just because you are deeply loved. Life will keep giving you chances to free yourself from the prison you’ve locked yourself in.


Why? Because you are valuable. Because reclaiming your freedom matters.


Now ask yourself: What would it feel like to let go of this guilt?


Know this: What happens, happens. And you shape your life based on the meaning you give to things. The pen and the eraser are both in your hands.


Now, pick up that eraser and rewrite the meaning you once gave.


You had said:

"I couldn’t do it. I wasn’t enough. I caused harm. If it won’t work, why should I even try? It’s pointless.”


But what if it’s not pointless? What if you get to decide the story now?


Erase the part where you shut yourself out. The part where you only let things in halfway. The part where you refused to sustain anything. Let your eraser be bigger than your pen.


Now, write something new:


"Because of me. Thanks to me."


Neither is the real truth. The only truth is that what is simply is.


You are moving through it.


So ask yourself—do you want to move lightly, or do you want to carry the weight of a past that no longer serves you?


If you want to be free, erase the decisions you made based on things you once thought were your fault. Do you want to trust? Then trust in life as it unfolds. Walk through it without writing stories about it.


Nothing more, nothing less.


Just as it is.


Now, take a breath. What is one story from your past that you’re ready to erase today?

 
 

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