LET IT BE…

Everything in life is so interconnected that it’s impossible for the human mind to keep track. Every choice is part of another choice. Every time we leave something behind, we are also saying "yes" to something else.

The most important lesson? Learning not to care about the famous "What will people say? What do they think of me?" Because those people—"people at outside"—might talk about you for 15 minutes a week, but meanwhile, you are living your entire life with the dreams you've buried, the things you've given up, and the choices you've made unwillingly. And the truth? They don’t even care.

I made this decision late—in my fifties—but better late than never. I told those who dared to talk behind my back to come and say it to my face. But not just to throw words and run—if they had reasons, if they had answers, they should also consider "from their perspective," beyond just their "own opinions."

After all, everyone’s "I think" is shaped by their own personal history. Our own fears make people dependent on us. Who knows what hidden fears we feed by staying silent?

So, let them think, let them talk, let them judge. Why? Because even if we don’t allow it, it’s going to happen anyway.

People will think, people will talk. Why imprison yourself in something you can’t control?

Let it be…